Desire. It’s that energy that wakes us up, focuses our attention, gets our blood flowing and makes us feel alive!Desire is one of the most enjoyable human experiences there is: wanting something and anticipating getting it. Desire is the energy that surges us into evolution.So what are the qualities that inspire this delicious feeling of desire between two people?Below are four qualities that are paramount in creating desire in relationships. If your relationship ever starts to feel a little stale (which, of course, is natural from time to time), infuse yourself with these qualities to bring yourself, and your love, back to life.1. Playfulness
Even the word playfulness makes me feel giddy, so it makes sense why it’s a key to desire. Playful energy is light, silly, flowing and uplifting. In a world where we get bogged-down by responsibility of all sorts, playful energy can be the antidote.
The reason playful energy makes us feel desire is really simple — it’s fun! We all want to laugh and enjoy ourselves. When we experience playfulness with another person, we want more. Voilà! Desire is created.
In life, we don’t tend to prioritize playfulness over “responsibility” (picking the kids up at school, finishing up a project at work — the to-do lists feel never-ending!). But this seems crazy! What’s the point of life if we’re not enjoying ourselves?!
So let playfulness take the stage in your relationship and you’ll absolutely reignite the spark.